Nov 14, 2008

mY NoVeMbEr : DeFiNiTiOn oF fRiEnD

I'm so sorry because not updated my blog for such a long time... I way to busy in the end of semester and getting ready for my final exam which is 3 papers left... so, Good luck to everyone...


My topic this time slightly different with the other but some tragedy in my life makes me think about it... 4 years ago when I was 17 years old, I don't have a lot of friend... that time my close friend would be all my school mate and I think that I only have 5 best friend..
Who are they, not need to know because for me they are very special... right until now, they are my best friend ever...

I have friend from my taekwondo team in Sibu and most of them are Chinese... and in school my junior, training together, laugh, and support each other, pain together... left me a lot of beautiful memory!!!

then, when I’m graduated from secondary school, I go to Matriculation Labuan College (KML) taking my pre bachelor in biology 1 year leaving me a lot of sweet memory about friendship...
that is the first time in my life far away from family such a long time... really long journey which are need to take bus from Sibu to Miri(6 hours) and from Miri to Labuan take an airplane around 45 minutes... Btw, Labuan is an island... In that small island I love a treasure that we called friend... at that time, for me friend is someone that you really need in the most time because each and everyone that come at this college not only came for study but also came to learn how to survive, communicate with everyone, and gain some experience...

Now I’m here at Peninsular Malaysia, Johor Bahru... Study at University Technology Malaysia learning how to be computer scientist... lol... Taking a flight from Sibu to Senai International Airport which is around 1 hour 30 minutes was very far journey and I really homesick... The first thing in my mind when I come here is do I able looking a friend of friends after this?? I so wonder... the first week, I really don't have close friend until I meet Frank, sarawakian guy live next door to me... haha... I’m so glad and after go to class I meet my precious friend from all over the country...sabah, sarawak, kelantan, kedah, terengganu, perak, johor, pulau pinang, melaka, KL, selangor, pahang, and so on... first time in my life can meet all people in every country in one class... I really happy and I are proud to be sarawakian in the class which is very rare to find...

Well, about friend... Thanks God for giving me a lot of friends in my entire life... I always pray that my friend be blessed and enjoy their life with me... because I really don't want my friend to be upset...

what the meaning of friend in individual mind...
for me there's a lot of meaning beyond the word 'friend'... not only describe the meaning of it as a human but as a person who appreciate his friend so much...

friend...
someone can accept who you really are!!!...
someone that treasure in my entire life...
someone we can share laugh...
someone we can share tears...
someone that care about each other...
someone not talk about you at the back...
someone can make us happy...
someone can make us mad but we manage to forgive, because we are friend...
someone that can share a lots of secrets.
Someone shares your wishes...
someone makes my world we live in a better and happier place...
someone who's there through your good times and tears...
Someone that can make u comfortable to be with...
someone that u really care...
someone that always be with you even you hate him/her...
someone that fills my lives with beauty and joy and grace.
Someone that support you always...
someone that really want to see u succeed...
someone that push you to the top...
someone who could not decline your wish...
and someone that friend until the end of your life...


I love my friend and I think these words come from my heart and I ask
myself what did I do to my friend??

I really treasure for my friendship as a gift...

True friend is very hard to find if we not being a true friend to someone....
God ask us to love our friend (Amsal 18) and we must help each other without choosing their richness, smartness and good looking...

As a Christian, we should take care each of God’s creatures and do not harm them because we are one family...
God bless you... friendship forever!!!